imagine having someone in bed and when you bend to kiss her on the neck you take a noseful of her scent that reminds you of your first heartbreak. or your first crush. or your wife. or your first holy communion.

the sense of smell has a freaky correlation with memory.

no wonder then, that when i shop for perfumes, i always end up with this, carolina herrera classic for men. it brings me back to a time when i am most honest. and pure.

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photo by joey climaco for carolina herrera.

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this sunday, june 10, i will be guesting again on rockedradio. this time, we’ll talk about sex and some relevant things about it. we’ll try to be as objective as possible, clinical to some extent, we’ll talk about it like we talk about the news. hehe asa pa. i will be guesting with my friends from high school. two of them are doctors, and one is a certified virgin. theyre also inviting the great dr margie holmes. patay joeyboy, ihanda ang inglesan. ano nga ba english ng barurot at nilabasan?

medyo nakakaflatter na tinawag nila kong “ladies man” kasi medyo hindi ganun ang tingin ko sa sarili ko. naks. hehe.sige na nga, i cant be humle, im not that great. pero inisip ko kasi na sa sex, dapat unahin ko muna paligayahin ang partner ko kaysa sarili ko. naku totoo na yatang nasa transcendence na ko sa heirarchy of needs. tapos pag ok na sya, e di pwede na ko humayod ng walang abala. wala ng guilt factor. ayoko kasing makinabang sa kahinaan ng iba.

pero minsan naisip ko naring tumigil kasi pag mapagbigay ka pala, aabusuhin ka ng iba. tingin sa yo karne lang. sabi ko nga, may favorite movie din ako. tsaka favorite color. o ano favorite color mo? flesh. loko lang sweetheart.

ang masasabi ko lang, ang sex dapat pinag uusapan. more of my thoughts on this sa radio program. makinig kayo!

rocked radio. 8pm. sunday june 10. NU 107. hosted by gang badoy of rockedphilippines and lourd de veyra of the radioactive sago project.

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